Instinct to Discipline

"Boys Too Men" mentorship and life-skills program designed for adolescent boys to young men (ages 7-25). It focuses on equipping young men with practical skills, emotional intelligence, and a positive understanding of manhood in modern society. 

 

Theme: Building Character, Competence, Confidence and Integrity 

 

1. Mission and Purpose 

 The Boys Too Men program provides a community of positive male role models who help teenagers transition into manhood. The program focuses on self-accountability, emotional regulation, and practical skills that build confidence, independence, and a sense of responsibility toward their homes, families, and communities. 

 

2. Core Pillars of the Curriculum 

The program is structured around four main pillars, delivered through weekly meetings (check-ins), workshops, and hands-on demonstrations. 

A. Household Handyman & Life Skills 

• Goal: Foster independence and pride in surroundings. 

• Topics: Basic plumbing (unclogging toilets, fixing leaks), electrical basics (changing bulbs, resetting breakers), wall repair (patching drywall, painting), and safety (checking smoke detectors). 

• Activities: "Fix-it" workshops where participants learn to use tool kits, change air filters, or assemble furniture. 

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B. Automotive Maintenance & Responsibility 

• Goal: Teach reliability and financial stewardship regarding transportation. 

• Topics: Changing a tire, checking oil and fluid levels, jump-starting a car, and understanding routine maintenance schedules. 

• Activities: A "Car Care Day" where a mechanic mentors the boys on basic car checks. 

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C. Personal Appearance & Attire Code 

• Goal: Instill self-respect and professional etiquette. 

• Topics: Dressing for success (interviews, formal events), basic grooming and hygiene, ironing clothes, and understanding appropriate attire for different occasions. 

• Activities: "Suit Up" workshop, including tie-tying demonstrations and a clothes drive to provide business casual attire for participants. 

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D. Physical & Mental Health (The Whole Man) 

• Goal: Promote emotional intelligence, resilience, and physical well-being. 

• Topics:

  • Mental: Managing emotions, recognizing signs of depression, coping with stress, social media awareness, and breaking the "man up" stigma. 

  • Physical: Nutrition, exercise, hygiene, and the importance of sleep. 

• Activities: Weekly check-in rounds to discuss struggles, group sports (dodgeball, basketball) to encourage healthy physical activity.